“Amid all this stuff about men and their big scary voices – in person and online – I am talking about a beautiful and precious way forward I think is hiding in plain sight.”
Tag: love
One Grain At A Time: Why I Need My Sanity Hourglass
“Because in 2026 there is so much of everything, but you have only one body, and one moment in which to exist. Which is the only moment in which you get to choose anything.”
Our Peace In Pieces: A Trauma Therapist on Power, Healing and Living Together.
“A tiny minority somehow keeps the huge peaceful majority split into pieces scattered across the globe… I don’t know how to fix this, but I refuse to be told it has to be like this.”
The Invisible Wardrobe: Transference in Ordinary Relationships
“In human group life, we’ve evolved a lightning-fast ability to use what we know about people from our past to make split-second guesses about the person in front of us now.
The technical term for this is transference.
This is not a sexy term. It sounds like something your accountant has to explain to you again each financial year.”
My Paternity Leave Battle Made Me The Dad and Doctor I Am
“We were just not ready to split up the team to send me back to paid work.”
Bringing Him Home: The 3 Exiles of Dad
“Dad left too soon, in body or in mind, and it’s like he’s in some other country now. Can we bring him home? What would it take?”
My Doctor's Handwriting 